Opposites … the key to finding whatever it is that eludes you.

You can get up in the morning wander into the kitchen for a coffee, stare at the mountain of dishes and …

1. Feel the overwhelm of no time, the resentment of no help or the visual shame of drop in visitors seeing this mess.

Or

2 … the opposite.

What would that opposite be for you? Gratitude for the yummy food the night before? Happiness as you remember the laughs of good company?

We get in life what we focus on. If you’re not getting what you want, what is the opposites you could consider?